Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Our Tuesday - and an Update on Summer

So many of you have been praying for Summer and have asked me how she is doing.
Ruth Ann and I spent a good part of this day with her.....


We met in Plano to see a movie this morning......a really inspiring and uplifting movie.


We had a lot of fun snapping photo op pictures before we went in.
Ruth Ann and I arrived early - gasp! I KNOW! Me? Early?
I bought the ticket for Summer and chose the same row Ruth Ann, Candie and I had sat on for the movie yesterday - Row E.
I wasn't thinking! This was SIX steps UP!
Summer was in a great deal of pain when she arrived and took some pain medicine which allowed her to sit for most of the film. She had to get up and stand a time or two but she made it through.


You can't tell by the smile on her face the condition she is in physically or even emotionally.
We enjoyed the movie and its message.  I think we all needed to see this one today.
There were only a hand full of people in the theater at the 10:45 showing.
This lady (between me and Summer) started talking to us and we were all sharing our thoughts about the actors and had a good time visiting. Her husband was the one who took the photo of the three of us together as we went into the movie.

Our next stop was lunch at Chuy's - only a short drive through two parking lots up from the Cinemark.


Once again, Summer spied the fun photo op!


Chuy's is a happy place and it feels like a party here!


Two wonderful ladies sitting at this table!
While I am always 'real' - I don't always share everything.
I jokingly say that there are at least 5 or 6 things I haven't told anyone.
Maybe just 2 or 3!
This photo doesn't show the tears and emotions Summer shared with us during our lunch visit today.
She is still experiencing intense pain. Some days are worse than others but no day is pain free.
She is doing everything she can possibly do to get better. Her exercises, therapy, medication, prayer.
The fact is - she is at a particularly low point in her life right now.
In pain.
Unable to work.
No job.
No income.
No home.
No money.

Summer and Sabrina's house has sold so there will be a little money coming soon but there are complications even about that.


So how is it that she seems so happy and smiles at the camera??

I will share some of the lessons my daughter has taught me.

Summer loves people. She always has.
 She is a people person and, yes, even at times a 'people pleaser.' 
She sees the best in everyone.
She sucks it up and does what she has to do - and tries to do it with a smile.
She keeps a lot of her pain to herself.
She believes it is healthy to be around happy people and especially around children.
Summer finds children can bring joy when you think you can't feel joy anymore.
Summer leaves things better than she found them.
That's true of a trip to the beach or a park.
She will wipe down a wet counter in a bathroom - any bathroom.
She has lived her life picking up litter every where she goes.
Summer loves nothing better than to fill a need for someone.
She believes in the power of music, friends, prayer and family.
She believes that if you do good to and for others - that good will not only come back to you - but it will be paid forward.

So how can she smile when she was just crying her heart out a few minutes before?
That's just who she is.
She is not faking her pain.
She isn't making it up.
It's not in her head and just because she can SMILE in the midst of pain does not mean she isn't feeling the pain.

Summer doesn't know when or how God will provide for her health, life and direction but she is trusting Him anyway. 

Jeremiah 29:11-13King James Version (KJV)

11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
12 Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you.
13 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
  I thank all of you who have joined me in prayer for Summer.
It was September 19th, 2016 when she was taking a power nap during lunch in her office.
She simply turned over on the couch......
That's been nearly one year ago.
Sometimes we have to wait on God......without even knowing why......but the answer will come.

I'm so proud of my daughter and her testimony of faith.
I truly believe God will redeem this time in her life.

We left Summer and she went back to Rowlett and we went back to Irving.
She called me later while I was at Aldi and said she had a good afternoon thrift shopping and finding some treasures - remember she had sold just about everything she owned when they put the house on the market.


I told her I had found a few things too!
That cutting board is the thick sturdy old fashioned kind you can't find any more.
I use it on the art table and cover it with newspapers on art night.
The sunflower pillow makes me smile and I love all my little candle lights!


Tonight Ruth Ann made more progress on our Santa.
I think this is some of her best work and she is loving this painting!


I worked on my two and we will be ready to put in some of the details next week.
Another two sessions and they will be done!
The top Santa is from last year and I glazed it tonight.
It was still wet when I hung him up on the Santa Wall last November!

The rain has ended in Houston and they could see blue skies late this afternoon.
We have family and friends down there and all are safe.
Some have been evacuated to shelters and some have had water but not so much that they had to leave their home. So many of the residents have lost everything. Still, there is a spirit of hope that shines through this whole devastating and catastrophic event.



I saw this on Facebook and that's pretty much how it is in Texas!

I get to stay up late and sleep in tomorrow!!!
Good night, folks!







16 comments:

Linda said...

I feel sad for Summer. I do hope she finds direction and relief for her situation very soon. I don't know why anyone would blame President Trump for what happened in Houston. I am, however, curious to see what the attitude of Congress is going to be toward aid for Texas. Sen. Cruz voted against aid for New Jersey after hurricane Sandy. Interesting that he now thinks Texas should receive aid. Texas Gov. Abbott, and former governor Rick Perry have been far too loose with language of Texas seceding from the US, and too loudly proclaiming Texas doesn't need the federal government. What will congress think? We're talking Houston, TX now, not New Orleans. I predict the discussion will be interesting to watch. Especially as Congress will now be in budget discussions which is always a difficult time without the complication of hurricane Harvey.

Ginny Hartzler said...

I am so sorry to hear that Summer is still in so much pain. For awhile here, I thought there was some hope from the doctor. Do they have a diagnosis and know what is wrong? The age old question...why do bad things happen to good people. Where is she living? I know she recently got on disability, right? I hope that will be a bit of a help. thanks so much for the update. Still praying!!

MimiG said...

Prayers continuing for Summer and her pain, both physical and mental. Her faith is astounding, and He will answer all of these prayers in His way and His time. She is a living testament to Him.

Carol said...

I feel so bad for Summer but after my husband hurt his back in January and woke up almost completely paralyzed, I can imagine how she feels. I pray for healing and I am thankful that she has learned to smile and find joy in the little things.

Arlene G said...

My heart aches for Summer as we were going through something similar with Marvin's extreme back pain. Fortunately his is under control...not gone but better. I admire people like Summer who can smile through the pain...attitude is everything when dealing with a chronic condition. I have seen ads for All Saints and I would like to see it. I love Chonda Pierce and I believe she is in that movie. Loving your Santa pictures. I have started working on some Christmas projects as well.

Kathy said...

I pray for Summer every day. So glad I am getting to know her on facebook. She is a very special person for sure. I don't understand why these things happen to us, but I know God has a plan. I want to see that movie so badly and hopefully will this weekend. I love that sunflower pillow! Really pretty.

MadSnapper said...

Prayers for Summer, I know you heart aches for her, and I know how bad chronic back pain is since I have had it to. and to have pain that never lets up is just depressing and she has such a smile through it all... I love th ephoto of her and the wheels in the ceiling and that restaurant I love the car on the wall.

Deanna Rabe - Creekside Cottage Blog said...

Continuing to pray for Summer. Thankful that she is keeping her eyes on God. He uses all things to bring us to him for everything. Ask and He will show you all who He is in this situation!

You have some good family and friends, Linda! What a blessing!

Ginny Hartzler said...

You are a talented artist. I have no doubt you could fix up a stump like in my blog toady. And do it better than this one. But I do think they need someone to move in...a few gnomes or fairies sitting around.

Ginny Hartzler said...

It is so sad to loose a tree. When we moved in this house almost 40 years ago, the first reason was for the huge beautiful maple tree in the front yard. It was glorious. A few years ago, the city had to cut it down. Gone was all the shade, the birds, it truly saddened me to see this wonderful old tree gone. We said we would plant something else there, but we never got around to it.

Susie said...

Linda, You raised a tough girl with a good spirit. Summer is amazing. She doesn't let her pain spoil a good time. I love the paintings. So good and will be hanging all too soon. Linda, I love the posted warning. I really can't believe how low someone would be to steal from others. Hope you got some well needed rest. Blessings, xoxo, Susie

ellen b. said...

Sorry for your daughter Summer and what is going on. May God continue to give her smiles. How tough and frustrating. I met my brother's family at the Chuy's in Austin in 2016 and enjoyed it. Love that last poster about Texans!

Carole said...

All the best to Summer. Am missing your quad updates - do you think it would be ok with Amber if you gave us a weekly general update with no pics of them but maybe some pics of art they have drawn or things they like?? I totally agree that kids need a level of privacy but maybe we can find a way to keep us a tiny bit in the loop??? Cheers

Bluebird49 said...

Prayers for Summer Dee! I've always heard you can turn over in bed wrong and break a bone! I just pray she finds relief soon.

Would you please continue to pray for ouor 13-year-old grandson, David? This Crohn's disease and depression now with it are making this a very scarily, hard time in his life. We are up here with them now, and are going to stay until my son,(who called us yesterday and asked if we could come soon), says it's time for us to leave! It's better that we're here for all of them. I just hope our being here isn't extra work for my daughter-in-law. She has so much weight already on her shoulders.

You both are doing great Santas--I agree that Ruth is really stretching her art muscles and growing better each year.

Nancy Chan said...

Summer is a very strong lady! In spite of the intense pain she can still smile and be happy with everyone. Not only has she to deal with the pain but with so many other problems. She is a good sport even in the photos. And you all look great in the photos! I also like the Texas posting in Facebook!

Vee said...

Oh I was hoping that Summer's health was better. What a trial chronic pain is. Still praying. I like the graphic you shared...don't mess with Texas...ever!