Thursday, July 2, 2026

It Takes a Village.....

 That's what my doctor said Wednesday afternoon as we had a video office visit.
It had been four weeks since I'd last seen her and I was not doing well at that time.
Thankfully, I am feeling much better and the UTI is gone and the changed dose of thyroid medicine has helped.


She said, "It takes a village and you have built a very good one."
She asked me who help me and I told her my children, neighbors and friends and all my blogging sisters and readers who pray for me.
I assured her I was getting some time to myself at least an hour or more every day.
Louis Dean didn't go to bed until 4:30 one recent morning and I got up when he finally went to sleep and had two and a half hours to myself.
How did I spend it?
Cleaning in the kitchen because that is therapy for me.
Reading my current book - Painted House by John Grisham.
Watching British crime shows - Scott and Bailey.


Then on Tuesday I had four hours spent thrifting with Brenda and doing errands.
It was wonderful!!

This Cinema sign was brand new from Hobbly Lobby with an original price of $159.
It was reduced a couple of times and then I bought it for about $5!
It lights up and I found a perfect spot in the den for my Saturday night dinner and movies!


Is this not such a beautiful wreath??


SO pretty!


I do love these and will not have to open up my baking cupboard when I just need a tablespoon of sugar or just a pinch of salt.


I loved this sign and knew exactly where I would hang it.


It's my custom to unload my treasures onto the driveway table and document them.
Louis Dean usually sits out there to keep me company.

Brenda has such a good eye for all things Chicos or quality pieces equal to that.


She found all four of the tops I bought.


Two were Chico's and two were not.
This one will look great with white pants.


I have a pair of green capris that were Nita's and this top will be a perfect pairing.


This chic Chico's top will be perfect for the winter holidays.


I scored on this pair of brand new sandals.
SO comfy! I'll be walking in comfort!

After my video visit with Dr. Abraham, I picked Summer up and we shopped Joe V's.


This lady made my day!
She admired my dress and I admired her and pretty soon we were 'God Blessing' each other and Summer took our picture.


Then a minute later, Summer also found a new friend.
It's amazing what a smile and greeting will do!!
These two ladies just made our day!


Joe V's is a great place for fresh produce!!
And pork loins were on sale for cheap so we each bought one.


Wednesday night's dinner....
roasted veggies drizzled with Rosemary infused olive oil and seasonings.


Fresh corn from Joe V's and chicken alfredo.

Summer is enjoying her life at Ilene's and I think this is so good for both of them.
Summer told me, "Mom! I have my JOY back!!"
YES!!!


Summer being close is a blessing.
Today she came over and worked on getting Louis Dean's DD214....
his date of discharge to allow him to apply for VA health benefits.

Louis Dean is reading poetry to her as she works.....
Win! WIN!!

I'll close this journal entry thanking you all for sticking around and reading my chapters of Children in the Closet.
Next week will be the last 'sad' chapter and then things start changing for the better. It was a hard time but worth it all to be where I am today.
My siblings, Deanie, Nita and Lonnie all encouraged me to write this memoir.
I'm so grateful for all the Siblings Trips where they shared their memories and helped me do the groundwork for the book.

Stay tuned!
The best is yet to come!




13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thankful you are getting respite time to do things you love. 💕 RHill, TX

Donna said...

Glad you are getting some R&R! The buys all look great, and I know you had fun shopping...
hugs
Donna

Ann said...

I'm so happy you are getting some time for yourself. It sounds like you've been enjoying it too. That was a real steal on the cinema sign.

Pamela M. Steiner said...

I did read your last Children in the Closet post, but didn't comment...I got busy and never got back to it, but I appreciated it and the fact that you wrote it. Wait, did I comment? I remember saying some things to you...I need to go back and check. LOL> That's how its' been lately...too many distractions. And I must've missed something about Summer being at Ilene's...is she living there? I need to go back and read some posts that I have missed recently. I am way behind. But how wonderful that she is closer to you! I know that makes you happy happy! And I know that meeting up with happy faces in the grocery store probably has a lot to do with how beautiful and friendly you are! People are attracted to your smile and glow! I know I would be! You have a very special gift for making people smile! This was wonderful, and I pray you have a blessed and beautiful weekend.

Deanna Rabe said...

I'm glad Summer is close by! Getting LD the Veterans benefits will be such a blessing! It has been so helpful for my dad who is 87, and a Vietnam Vet.
Love you friend! Thankful for your wise doctor. We cannot give to others if we have no reserves in our own lives!

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

You did a great job with your book, I can hardly wait for the ending...Happily ever after. Happy 4 th of July weekend!

Anonymous said...

Happy 4th. Jan

Arlene G said...

So glad you are getting some free time to yourself Linda. It is so important. Will continue to lift you up!! And I am looking forward to the LD era of your books.:)

photowannabe said...

Oh yes !!! It's so good to read that The Best is Yet to Come !!!
Glad your UTI is gone and that you really are using your ME time. That's the best news.
Great finds at the Thrift store. You will look gorgeous in all of the tops.
It really does sound like a Win/Win having Summer at Ilene's and caring for you two .
Linda, you never met a stranger for sure !!!
(((hugs)))
Sue

Ginny Hartzler said...

so I hope you will continue to write about the happy times!! how long will summer be nearby? We don't have a Joe V's and I have not heard of it. It sounds wonderful. I adore all of your tops and cannot pick a favorite...maybe the third one? what will you be doing this weekend? I am so glad you are feeling better. $150.00!!! Quick, bring a fainting couch!!

BeachGypsy said...

SO GLAD that dang UTI is gone!! Glad you're feeling better. As always, love seeing your thrift finds---- I'll try to post mine soon. MERRY JERRY 4th of July and God bless America! 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸

Wanda said...

Sweet Linda, so glad you got rid of that nasty UTI. Since my surgery I have had no bladder problems which is such a big blessing. Love that you are able to take time for yourself. And Summer how great she is doing so good, and close by. The treasures from the Thrift Shop are great. Will look forward to a fashion show soon. Sending love and hugs. Happy 250 today, and God continue to bless America.

Anonymous said...

Your writings and photos are always so pretty and pleasing!