We fell ill on January 28th and have spent more time in bed than not.
So many have been sick with the crud! Congestion and coughing and feeling miserable.
We weren't really surprised when it was our turn to be sick.
We would sit in the den and watch DVDs or TV but several days ago, I pushed the button to put my chair down and it wouldn't work. It's an electric couch and has shorted out at least twice before. Louis Dean simply repaired the wire and it was fixed. Alas, now he can't remember how to do that. And to make matters worse, I pushed the button to further recline the seat thinking then it would work to go back down. Nope! So we are in a mess with our couch!
Jesse came to look at it over the weekend and will be back when he finds his electric tester and can see if the motor is getting electricity. Probably not since that's been the problem before. Too bad Louis Dean can't remember how to fix it!
I think if the motor is out, we will have to buy a new couch and it will not be an electric one!
Today we dressed and went out to do errands.
It was a real milestone for us.
First we went to the post office to mail a birthday present to my brother, Buster. His birthday is on Valentine's Day! I also mailed a children's Bible book to great grandson, Piercyn, who accepted Christ as his Savior recently.
Next we picked up prescriptions for Louis Dean - managing our meds is a huge task and requires me to keep my wits about me.
Louis Dean's kidney labs from his annual check up were not good at all and he had to go back and get more labs done this morning.
He doesn't drink enough water and I am at my wit's end in trying to make him.
We celebrated with Whataburgers! Complete with onion rings and French fries.
Next up was unloading a load at Goodwill.
I am purging like never before.
It had been months since LD and I had pedicures so that was next on our agenda.
Lovely Nails pay us such special attention. They are like friends and family to us and we really do appreciate them.
We were weak from being sick for so long but managed a last errand to Kroger for groceries.
It was a good day and we accomplished a lot.
Louis Dean brought in the groceries and I put things up.
I built a fire in the fireplace and we poured a glass of wine and settled down to watch the 2019 version of Midway.
I took down the Santa wall as we watched....
And I moved the perpetual tree to the baby grand.....
Everything is under construction in here!
It gets worse before it gets better.....
It starts with one painting.....
the rest will follow......
Now for a personal note.....
It is not easy to share my story.
I don't enjoy making people sad.
I have felt the Lord calling me to write my book and it has taken 10 years so far.
The book has brought clarity to me and my siblings and helped us see our life the way it really was.
I don't think I could have written it if we had not had a happy ending. So be it that that ending was when we were all in the latter part of our lives.
It's sobering for me to even read these chapters myself.
It's like I'm watching a movie.
I am certain God had a plan for us and it is by His grace and mercy we survived our childhood and, even though we all four suffered much in our grown up years, we did come to a place of peace and happiness.
Thank you for reading my words and being so supportive of me and my siblings.
Hi Linda. I am so glad that you and LD are on the mend. I have been reading parts of your story, but admit that I have missed a few chapters. I hope to have time to go back and read the entire thing. Writing about hard times can be very healing and help to put many things in perspective. I have no doubt but what God was looking out for you and your siblings. He has a wonderful purpose for your life! I will tell you that some aspects of your story are simular to some things my own siblings and I have dealt with in our childhood and growing up, so I really appreciate you sharing your story. Thank you and God bless you and LD!
ReplyDeleteI’ve been sick with a cold since last Monday evening, but I’m on the mend. I had no fever so that was great.
ReplyDeleteIt’s so amazing to look at our life stories and see what was real and what God saved us through! He’s so good to help us through hard things!
Glad you’re feeling better! I really love your wooden wall! It’s beautiful!
Deanna Rabe
Sorry to hear you both were ill. My husband is getting over a kidney infection - he too doesn’t drink enough water although I will say he’s doing better. The pain he went through seems to be motivating him! He’s on 3 different meds for another week.
ReplyDeleteI’ve been reading your story and find it interesting. It should be a movie. I can picture everything as I read -
Debby
Linda,
ReplyDeleteWhat I think is amazing about you is ,with all you went through as a young child you aren’t bitter about it and don’t whine about how you were treated.
Some people have much less happen to them and they turn on their parents like spoiled brats. I know some people like that. It hurts their parents so badly just because they weren’t the perfect parents that they thought they should have. You were so very brave to take such good care of your siblings at such a tender age. Thank goodness your life got so much better as you got older.
Hopefully you will finish your book soon. Glad to hear that you are both feeling better now. God bless you Linda. Sharon Kelly
I'm not writing this to alarm you, but I have a dear friend that had a short in his electric recliner. It shorted out one evening in the living room while he was asleep in bed, it burned his house down and him in it. I would unplug that thing right now until I can get someone to fix it. I just couldn't read your post and not say something. Please be careful. This happened 2 years ago, he was a gentleman in our Bible study class at church.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you are both better and able to get out and about. Your story is amazing-my heart aches for the things you and your siblings had to go through as children. I know it can't have been easy for you to write, but it shows how faithful God has been, and brought you through such a hard time.
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear you and Louis Dean are getting better! That old crud really likes to hang on. My dearest has an electric recliner and the other day we heard a "crack" and it was part of the metal that raised the chair had broke off. Our son (bless his heart) came took the chair apart, took the frame home and fixed it and now it works perfectly. I was amazed at your EMPTY wall. What a difference with no paintings. That's a lot of work. I'ts my Saturday morning chore. Thank you for your faithful blogging with all that is going on in your life. Continue to love sharing your book on you life. What a labor of love you have put into this. Loving you and LD tonight.
ReplyDeleteSorting and filling pill boxes is a real chore...I do it weekly, on Sat
I just re-read my comment, and my saturday morning chore is filling the pill boxes, not taking painting off the wall...haha..Senior moment.
ReplyDeleteYour young life was so sad and lacking in encouragement, and even in love in many ways. But just look at how you turned out!!!! I am so glad you are both better and going out now. Let me know the results of the kidney tests! We have an electric couch. And we are in the middle of a snow and ice blizzard with the state declared an emergency. They said there will be mass power outages. I hadn't thought about the couch, though!
ReplyDeleteLove ❤️
ReplyDeleteThis was DeeDee Clark - I’m not very savvy for this.
DeleteSo thankful that the two of you are feeling better. I must say that I am enjoying reading your life story as it truly has made me take a look at my own which was filled with an alcoholic father who beat my mom and was not nice to us. I realized just recently that he is the very reason that I was so shy in my younger years as the fear of saying the wrong thing made me not talk. Sad, but life lived is life that teaches us strong lessons.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you and LD have not been feeling well. You two sure had a busy day with all those stops you made.Sounds exhausting.
ReplyDeleteOh no on the recliner. I prefer the good old manual reclining ones.
I imagine that writing your story has been difficult. The thing that jumps out at me is that even with all you went through you were still able to find a bit of happy memories in between the sadness and uncertainty.
Happy to know that you both are feeling much better, and where able to get out and run your errands. Prayers for LD's health and lab work. You really have been working hard getting the Christmas all put away . I have an electric sofa as well, and it is always a thought as to whether or not the power is going to work. I won't purchase another one. Hoping yours is a minor issue and can be fixed. You just can't beat What a burger...however, the one in our little town is very expensive. I'm enjoying your chapters and you are correct, some things in our lives are hard to write about, but by placing words on paper, it brings healing. Wishing you all a good but Rainy day...
ReplyDeleteSo glad you are feeling better. If you buy another couch and it is not electric, it might be hard to recline with those manual handles and had to push to unrecline. Just my opinion. I got a non electric and count not work the recliner. Also, make sure yours is unplugged until your son gets back.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear you and Louis Dean are feeling better.
ReplyDeleteHope you can find some creative way to get him to drink more water.
I sympathize with him, because I don't like drinking water either, and what helps me stay hydrated is that I have a lot of supplements I take with each meal, and since I'm not so good at swallowing pills, it takes quite a bit of water to get them all down.
(((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteI am so happy you two are feeling better and over the "Crud". We are finally over ours too. It took almost 3 weeks of feeling like we had been hit by a truck.
Hope you get the recliner fixed. When I saw the picture of LD on the floor..my first reaction was Oh NO!! what happened. Glad it was just him trying to fix the chair. Hope Jesse can come to the rescue.
Yes, your chapters have made me sad but I am glad there is Redemption and Restoration in your lives now.
Please keep writing. You have a beautiful way with words.
Blessings
Sue
You and LD are so loved Linda. I appreciate that you have written about your journey even though it was a difficult one. God has brought you "here" and you are blessed. You give God the glory and that is one thing life is about, to glorify God in all we do. I am very glad you wrote your story and look forward to each posted chapter. It gives a wonderful insight to who you are.
ReplyDeletePatricia
So glad you both are on the mend. As for your story Linda....you are a walking and talking picture of God's Grace. You encourage each of us who read your blog. It would have been very easy to be bitter but you chose joy.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry both of you have been so unwell. It does sound like you're on the mend, thank the good Lord. What a job you must have taking down the Christmas decorations and art work!!
ReplyDeleteTake it easy. Don't work too hard :)