Sunday, March 8, 2026

Doing Home Therapy and Loving it!

 I may be the very last person to take down thier very last Christmas tree from 2025!
As I write this journal entry on Sunday night, I still have four fully decorated trees in two different rooms. The dining room has two trees and the dining table is heaped high with Christmas decorations and debris from other rooms. Then there's the sewing room with another two trees plus ALL the Christmas debris!

However, I am not fretting since we are not really entertaining or hosting dinners and such so I am not feeling pressure to get it all done.
I've actually been doing a lot of thinking lately - what with all the life changes we all face as we age - and I think Christmas 2025 was my last big hurrah.
I'm going to be scaling it back over the next few years and when and if I reach 80 - that will be my last year of hosting Christmas Eve. 
I think it's good to plan and think ahead - it kind of comforting in a way.
As I am taking my Santa walls down, I've decided to only do one this Christmmas and that will be in the living room. Next year I'll do the den wall....and in the meantime....I'll be asking my children if there are any favorite Santas they would like to have and then I will sell some of the others.
I'v enjoyed painting each and every one and want others to continue to enjoy them.


Our cats seem really happy to be home.
They love the debris and I had to halt remaking this wreath as first  Tabitha claimed it....


and then Samantha claimed it!


I have finished the foyer and decided on a botanical theme.


It just kind of happened.


I have both live and faux plants.


I'm loving the transition.....of winter to spring and summer.


I do things differently every year.


But this angel wall has remained pretty much the same for the last 25 years....


Louis Dean and I spend several hours outside each day when the weather permits.
I decided to move this table over against the house (where the morning shade is) and it serves as a little cafe style place to have breakfast, coffee, and watch birds and have my quiet time.


I usually prepare healthy meals and I also need to remind myself to make sure I feed Louis Dean.
He's seldom hungry so I have to think ahead and make sure he eats enough.


In taking care of others, we often forget to take care of ourselves.
Turns out I had totally missed getting a mammogram last year - or a flu shot.
I called the imaging center and had an appointment the very next day.
Results were normal and Louis Dean was so relieved as he lost his beloved Ellen to breast cancer.

I find that limiting our errands to two a day works best for us.
My mammogram and a stop at Krogers was on the calendar for Thursday.
I always check their meat section for reduced for quick sale buys and came home with pork chops and four pounds of hamburger.
Errands one day and stay at home the next.
We need these home days now more than ever,


I'm glad Louis Dean loves salads nearly as much as I do.


Early bedtime for me and a movie for Louis Dean - MacArthur!
I have so many books and once I read one - I give it to someone I think will like it or to Goodwill.
It's fun to go look at all the ones I have stacked up in the guest room closet and on the staircase to the bunk beds and the library shelves in the sewing room and the shelves in the foyer which hold mostly the Readers Digest Condensed Books. Hundreds of books. More than I can read in my life time. But I'm picking them one by one......


I love my Saturday night dinner and movie with Ilene!
Louis Dean and I had a glass of wine as we waited for her to arrive.


I made a special cocktail using blueberry wine, sparkling water and a splash of buttery chardonney for me. Ilene is a very light drinker so I make sure her drink is low in alcohol.


I made my version of the strawberry/spinach/pecans/eggs/veggies salad from La Madeleine ...
with poppyseed dressing.
Delicious!


Our entree was Shrimp Pasta Fetticini!
Not Louis Dean's favorite but I love it and sent some home with Ilene and I have more to use for meals this week. Summer is still in Texas and she may visit again and enjoy a good meal.


I chose the movie for this weekend and we watched it.
Alas, I enjoyed it better back in 2003.
It wasn't nearly as entertaining for us in 2026.
And I thought Louis Dean would be interested in it - but he wasn't.

Next weekend will be better.....





You can't go wrong with James Bond!
I think I love him since he reminds me of my Benjamin...


11 comments:

  1. We are always praying for you and Louis Dean. Home is what we make it. My legs aren't as strong as they used to be. But life is good. I enjoy you sharing your days so much!

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  2. Your posts and meals and activities are always so interesting. I enjoy visiting here with you. We are similar in that now we limit our days to basically one or two things in the morning...whether it be a Doctor appt. or stopping at the grocery store, or going to another store (Ollie's, Dollar Tree, etc.), but always try to be home before lunch time. We have a simple lunch and take a nap. That works best for both of us. When we get out of our routine it takes a while to catch up. Today, since we lost an hour of sleep due to time change, and then church and our son came for lunch and we worked in the yard a little bit...nap came late, and I'm ready for bed now! (8:00 pm) I love your little deck and morning table...that's really nice! Thank you for sharing so much of your lives with us. I really enjoy it. And I pray for you and LD.

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  3. I love Daniel Craig as Bond! I liked Sean Connery, too, nevertheless how different. I didn't care much for Moore or Dalton,; if there more, I've forgotten them!
    You get out more than we do. We're bout housebound.
    So glad you and Ilene found each other -- friends mean so much. Thanks for being my friend, Linda! Love, Trudy

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  4. I think as you get older - like us - one or two things a day is plenty!
    Love James Bond - the original one the best.

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  5. I can relate to scaling back. I feel like last Christmas I put out too much and I never did put anything out for Valentines day or St. Patrick's day so far this year.

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  6. I love your botanical theme..it all looks beautiful and I am right there with you....I am scaling back on decorating, especially at Christmas but still plan to celebrate the fall season!

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  7. I love Bond anything! lol , Always good...Connery was excellent!
    I scaled back my Christmas decorating last Christmas...I think less is more, these days. SO much easier to keep clean.
    Love the salad!!
    hugs
    Donna

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  8. cutting back sounds like a good plan, will be interesting for me to see if you can or can not. ha ha... which ever you do it will be YOU and you will be happy... the 28th of this month will be 0ne Year housebound. My days are filled with long to do lists, today I dragged all the limbs and brush out that I had piled up when I pruned the powderpuff tree, the tree took 3 days, the getting to the curb took 10 trips and now I am collapsed on the sofa.. as soon as I get my energy and desire back, I am going to declutter the top kitchen cabinets.

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  9. I really like your botanical theme for this year. It really goes well with your cozy home.
    At my age scaling back is almost a given for me. I don't get the umph to put things out in the first place.
    You are doing such a wonderful job just being you and loving Louis Dean with all of your being. That's what Life is all about.
    Love you my dear friend.
    Sue

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  10. i think of you two so often, i see myself in you and admire your relationship with ld. i don't have your energy, but i would like to think i have your spirit. letting go, scaling back...it is so difficult. i am 67 and i have already had to do that!! i hope if you decide to sell some of your santa's, you feature them here, so we can have a chance to pick a favorite!! my mom is 92 and taking care of has been difficult and rewarding but i know what it takes, you have it!! your home looks great, you have made a wonderful life with ld. and thanks so much for your heartfelt words today!!

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  11. You’re not alone! My sister, bless her heart, is still taking down Christmas stuff and their tree is still up. RHill, TX

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