Just a short journal entry to say this has been a much better week!
All systems are go with our water and plumbing....although RWD Services came out yesterday - at no charge - to use the camera to check the lines from where they repaired the sewer to the back fence.
The guys had a nagging feeling that there might be an additonal problem and, sure enough, there is.
I looked at the camera screen as it showed roots and a shift in the pipe that will need to be replaced - at some point. I can either put this off until the time comes when the roots get worse and the plumbing again stops up. Or I can address it sooner rather than later, and at 77 years old, I think it will be easier to deal with this than when I am perhaps 87!
They are working up an estimate and I am so grateful this will not be an emergency issue.
The work will involve taking up a stone walk, the pond area Louis Dean created last year and the shade garden. Major landscaping changes will be required.
Again - better now than later.
Grateful I have Hector and Bruno - although Bruno is more expensive.
It is what it is and we will do what we need to do.
I pray every day for wisdom in taking care of Louis Dean and making decisions that I am still new at making. Who knew I would be in charge of so much at this time of my life?
I had a new batch of chocolate chip cookies for them and they loved them!
In other news, I received a call from the VA Enrollment and Elegibilty Division yesterday.
I spoke to a real person and she gav me so much information and a break down of just exactly what I need to do to receive VA benefits for Louis Dean. Since he didn't serve in the army during a time of war, he is not elegible for financial aid, he does qualify for medical benefits which include Home Health Aid and long term care.
The sweet representative is mailing me the documents and I wrote down all the instructions on filling them out. While I pray we will not need the VA help - it will be a comfort to know that it's in place if we do.
I'm back to cooking meals and making sure Louis Dean eats well.
Do any of you make any of the Facebook reels?
This is one of them and it was really good.
I served it on some really good toasted bread and topped with sliced avocado - for me.
LD doesn't love it so I don't serve that to him - other than in guacomole.
We are still packing Christmas away and Louis Dean is a huge help in packing the tubs.
The house is still a wreck but I'm not fretting about it.
Our bedroom, my bathroom, the kitchen and now most of the den is devoid of Christmas but feels rather empty since I haven't brought my debris fillers in yet.
Louis Dean loves movies - especially John Wayne - but I have watched the last one for a good while.
I just can't.
But we have an entire bookcase full of DVDs and I told him we would watch one together every day.
It has to be one both of us like.....
Last night was On Golden Pond.....
I love that film and I have actually been to Squam Lake in central New Hampshire.where they filmed the movie.
In years past, I would travel somewhere special for my birthday and this was one of our stops in our tour of New England.
I'm only good for ONE movie so I left him up to watch this one - which we have both seen recently!
Meals require attention and I try not to waste food.
Today was a BLT that was exceptionally good due to the multigrain bread.
Once again, I added avocado to mine.
We went to vote after lunch and it was our first time out of the house in over a week.
Did errands and picked up meds at Walgreens and I shopped Aldi.
We were out of a weird list of stuff.....
coffee filters, black pepper, bleach, parchment paper....
Cocktail hour on the driveway......
Wine, grapes, chicken salad and crackers.
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Your meals look good and so do the movies!
ReplyDeleteYou must watch Cruella, with Emma Stone. It awesome and I have seen it three times now. It is not really a kid's movie like you would think. I have seen the first two movies you show. I'm so glad you are thinking ahead! And that things are still going as well as can be. You have sure had more than your share of plumbing problems. It seems there is no end to them!
ReplyDeleteWe had a little "taste" of your plumbing problems this past week...no "plumbing" for two full days + a little more, but thankfully it was resolved. I thought of you as we "camped out" in our bathrooms and had to make sure no mater went down the drains anywhere, so no showers, etc. That was all I could take. I don't know how you did it for 3 weeks? Yikes! We are SO thankfull that's over, but yes, it was an expensive week for us too. Oh, I love seeing all the interesting meals you prepare and also the movies. We aren't really into movies that much, as hubby loves his sports and so that's when I either read books or blogs, etc. I enjoyed your post so much, and am glad things are a bit calmer for you right now. (((HUGS))))
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear you have additional plumbing issues. Thankfully it's not an emergency this time.
ReplyDeleteI don't often watch movies. I can't remember the last one I saw.
Plumbing isn't cheap but hopefully, you got bids.
ReplyDeleteThe food looks really good...and we don't really watch movies. We like to binge on TV police series.
Have a sweet weekend!
hugs
Donna
We loved The Last Word, so did Myra when I told her about it. It was on Netflix, not sure if its there now. Bob always loved action movies, we both did and war movies, now he will now watch them, there are very few movies he will watch, makes it hard. so glad your house is up and running and ON NO on more repairs. I need a handyman, that can do inside stuff and yard stuff.
ReplyDeleteI noticed how thin LD has gotten, and wanted you to know Bob has lost down to 165, from 189 in the past year.. having trouble keeping his weight up. I bought ensure yesterday, he is losing muscle weight from lack of activity.
DeleteMy prayers continue for you all Linda. There is a lot of added stress coming your way right now, not only with the issue itself, but repairs are so expensive and you never know when one repair runs into having to do another. You are doing wonderful at taking care of LD and you are so attentive to all of his needs. You will have many rubies in your crown. Praying God's favor upon you each day..
ReplyDeleteI can so relate to your septic system problems! We’re having the same issues. Yep, better to deal with repairs now rather than wait until it breaks and you have no working bathrooms again. What a pain. Praying for you Linda. ❤️ RHill, TX
ReplyDeleteSo glad things are getting back to normal and yes, take care of that now for your peace of mind, Linda. I am so glad you are getting help from the VA. It was a life saver for my mother in caring for Daddy. We are having work done here at our house this week....our tree line at the back needs to be tidied up and I look forward to seeing it done! Take care!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad you're getting VA help! Please don't hesitate to use it- a home health aide, even for a few hours a week, would enable you to get a little break without worrying about LD - and it's so important that the caretakers take care of themselves!
ReplyDeletePTL that your plumbing issues are finished but I guess It is better to get the possibilities of more of the same taken care of now.
ReplyDeleteYou Dear Friend are such a wonderful wife and caretaker for Louis Dean. He's so tender and loves you so much. Prayers continuing for the 2 of you.
Yumm on your meals. You are so good at making use out of everything in the fridge.
Hang in there ... I am so glad you are feeling better too.
Sue
I am so sorry you have ongoing plumbing problems but you are right---better now than when you are a few years older. It's tough enough to deal with things at this age than it will be later in life.
ReplyDeleteI volunteered at the VA here for several years. PLEASE use the help they offer. You will be amazed how non-invasive the help is and how much not only LD will benefit from it but YOU will be the biggest beneficiary of all.
Glad you are back to cooking. I am back to cooking regular meals now that John is back home from Assisted Living. Having him here 24/7 has been life-altering-as you well know. He, too, is a movie buff and I have to make myself SIT to watch a movie because I am always doing 'something'. I need to take that cue from you to promise one movie a night! You are a good soul, a good partner and a good person, Linda. Hug yourself whenever you need to! xo Diana
So sorry to read that your plumbing issues are still going on . But thankful you are about to use it all now. Hug each other for me. Blessings, love you guys, xoxo, Susie
ReplyDeleteThat really sucks that they have to dig up the pond that LD recently put in. If it ain't one thing it's another. Glad to hear you was able to sort out some VA benefits for LD.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes the food reels capture me and David. We've cooked a couple winners lately and a couple of losers. LOL
Take care. Hugs
Carla
Good to read that you have water in your home again and you can cook meals at home again. Movies are a great escape from reality and glad you have found some to enjoy together, Linda.
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